Be safe! Take him out somewhere public and flirt with other guys. Let me give you advice please tell the guy that you are going to cut off all ties and communication with him and let him know,if he tried to contact you that he will be blocked. He will make plans to meet me and then his kids want him to do something for him so he cancels. He had a way of speaking that was a little too polished to be attractive, but in person he was alright. Try to make a prudent decision as he's just a person who you met once in life and if he borrow money and run away you won't be able to catch him.
I just feel so stupid debating this while he has no problem going anywhere and everywhere and he doesn't even know how lame what Im doing is.
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I still need him. I have a phone with a keyboard now but still, having a 'real' conversation via text message sounds incredibly tedious. I realised I was unable to forget him.