Christine writes: More From Sexual health. Trying unique positions doesn't help and being on top makes no difference to being on the bottom. It sucks because I want to be able to have an orgasm and I want my boyfriend to feel like he is actually good at sex. Ah, okay, thank you for clarifying.
I don't enjoy sex
A virgin and confused about sex.
Why Some Women Don't Feel Pleasure During Sex
Nelson says you shouldn't forget to pay some attention to your brain. There's plenty to enjoy during sex without the big finish. When people are having difficulties with pleasure during sex, it's helpful to know what other things make their bodies and brains feel good, so that they still have ways to experience pleasure. It would make sense it that affected my sex drive, obviously, but I have friends who are diagnosed with depression who have no problem with this.