Henry, dating a non-believer is hard road. Especially when you watch every one of your friends get married or start a family. The Spirit of God is the only guarantee that we will have what it takes to love, to confess, to sacrifice, to give and to forgive one another. Do not intermarry with them. While the first two dates were just awkward encounters that made me feel uncomfortable and probably caused my face to glow red for hours afterwards, the third guy peaked my interest. I elevated my boyfriend to where God should have been. More articles tagged as:
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I know Christians who both love God, who have dated but it has ended badly or been a complete train wreck. Then there was the pressure of every person I knew asking about my relationship status every time I saw them. Being a believer means that your relationship with God has absolutely, entirely and clearly changed your life. Growing up in the church, I thought I had a solid understanding of how my story would play out.